Comments on: Wanted: an end to rape http://noblesavage.me.uk/2010/01/12/wanted-an-end-to-rape/ Tue, 29 Nov 2011 22:50:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: NS http://noblesavage.me.uk/2010/01/12/wanted-an-end-to-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-4548 NS Sat, 23 Jan 2010 08:58:44 +0000 http://noblesavage.me.uk/?p=759#comment-4548 @1 - There is no such thing as a rape fantasy. If you fantasise about it and want it and even advertise for it, it's not rape. It might be a fantasy about stranger sex or rough sex or bondage, but it's not a 'rape' fantasy. You can't fantasise about real rape because real rape is not wanted, enjoyed or consented to in any way, shape or form. @A - If you'll read back through my post, absolutely nowhere did I blame or even mention Ty's family or how he was raised. I'm not interested in the whole 'blame the parents' meme. I said that how our SOCIETY views, treats and portrays women undoubtedly contributed to Ty's belief that rape fantasies are a) possible, b) common and c) something he would want to take part in. I understand that this must be an emotionally charged issue for you since you know him but you're reading into things that I never said. @1 – There is no such thing as a rape fantasy. If you fantasise about it and want it and even advertise for it, it’s not rape. It might be a fantasy about stranger sex or rough sex or bondage, but it’s not a ‘rape’ fantasy. You can’t fantasise about real rape because real rape is not wanted, enjoyed or consented to in any way, shape or form.

@A – If you’ll read back through my post, absolutely nowhere did I blame or even mention Ty’s family or how he was raised. I’m not interested in the whole ‘blame the parents’ meme. I said that how our SOCIETY views, treats and portrays women undoubtedly contributed to Ty’s belief that rape fantasies are a) possible, b) common and c) something he would want to take part in. I understand that this must be an emotionally charged issue for you since you know him but you’re reading into things that I never said.

]]> By: A http://noblesavage.me.uk/2010/01/12/wanted-an-end-to-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-4547 A Fri, 22 Jan 2010 23:48:53 +0000 http://noblesavage.me.uk/?p=759#comment-4547 Sorry to intrude on your blog but I feel like a need to set a few things straight. I'm not at all making excuses for Ty or the horrible things he has been accussed of, but growing up with him for 17 years I need to ask you to lay off his family and the way he was raised because you have no idea. His parents are crushed, probably beyond repair. Why? Because this in NOT how Ty was raised, to have no respect for women. In fact, just the opposite. Needless to say, our community is still shocked. What I know of Ty is that he is a smart, hardworking, kind, happy guy and it breaks my heart to think that he has made so many horribly wrong choices that have led him to do such a thing. And I hope that justice will be served. My heart is sick for that poor woman that was abused and hope she can somehow get her life back together. Go ahead and judge Ty, because HE was the one that somehow made it to this point in his life, don't you dare judge his family and how he was raised. Sorry to intrude on your blog but I feel like a need to set a few things straight. I’m not at all making excuses for Ty or the horrible things he has been accussed of, but growing up with him for 17 years I need to ask you to lay off his family and the way he was raised because you have no idea. His parents are crushed, probably beyond repair. Why? Because this in NOT how Ty was raised, to have no respect for women. In fact, just the opposite. Needless to say, our community is still shocked. What I know of Ty is that he is a smart, hardworking, kind, happy guy and it breaks my heart to think that he has made so many horribly wrong choices that have led him to do such a thing. And I hope that justice will be served. My heart is sick for that poor woman that was abused and hope she can somehow get her life back together. Go ahead and judge Ty, because HE was the one that somehow made it to this point in his life, don’t you dare judge his family and how he was raised.

]]> By: 1 http://noblesavage.me.uk/2010/01/12/wanted-an-end-to-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-4535 1 Wed, 20 Jan 2010 22:01:03 +0000 http://noblesavage.me.uk/?p=759#comment-4535 I do think he should have checked that she really did want it first but genuinely a significant although small number of women have rape fantasies...not really fair to say they cant enjoy them I do think he should have checked that she really did want it first but genuinely a significant although small number of women have rape fantasies…not really fair to say they cant enjoy them

]]> By: Tara@Sticky Fingers http://noblesavage.me.uk/2010/01/12/wanted-an-end-to-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-4500 Tara@Sticky Fingers Sat, 16 Jan 2010 10:42:36 +0000 http://noblesavage.me.uk/?p=759#comment-4500 Unbelievable. And yet this is the first time I've heard of it. X Factor winners and Celebrity Big Brother I know well, despite never having watched either of them because they are all over the media, and yet something like this ... Unbelievable. And yet this is the first time I’ve heard of it. X Factor winners and Celebrity Big Brother I know well, despite never having watched either of them because they are all over the media, and yet something like this …

]]> By: SandyCalico http://noblesavage.me.uk/2010/01/12/wanted-an-end-to-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-4496 SandyCalico Sat, 16 Jan 2010 08:37:01 +0000 http://noblesavage.me.uk/?p=759#comment-4496 That was difficult to read. It saddens and angers me that someone could treat another human being like that. The fact that it demonstrates hatred of women makes it even more sickening. Brilliant post. That was difficult to read. It saddens and angers me that someone could treat another human being like that. The fact that it demonstrates hatred of women makes it even more sickening. Brilliant post.

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