NS July 29th, 2008

I have been told that Guinness did not actually commission this outrageously offensive piece of advertising and that it’s viral marketing (at its worst, obviously) but the fact that several people thought this was funny enough to make and try to sell to Guinness is just as appalling. The text line at the end literally made my jaw drop. I mean, I know some men really do consider women to be objects here for their personal gratification and enjoyment but this just takes the cake. Watch at risk of throwing up.

via Feministing

The video is no longer available as it’s been pulled from YouTube on a copyright claim. To summarise its content: it showed a woman on all fours, from shoulders to bum, rocking back and forth slightly to bowmp-chicka-bow-bow porn music. A male hand appears from behind her and sets a bottle of beer on the small of her back and it balances there momentarily before he takes it away again. A second male hand appears from in front of the woman and does the same thing. Finally, a third male hand reaches up from underneath the rocking woman and takes the beer balanced on her back. We are now to see that this woman is involved in a foursome with three other men. The tagline then appears on screen and reads “Share one with a friend (or two).” So, once again, the male sexual fantasy is being used to sell beer. But not only that, oh no. It is also implied that the woman and the beer are one in the same — an object enjoyed by men that can be shared and passed around at will. And that is what I find so disgusting. Not that there is a foursome going on but that the beer and the woman are treated equally as tools for the males’ enjoyment. Actually, the beer has it better. It’s treated with more reverence than the woman, who is merely a surface to place said beer on. Woman as coffee table. How hilarious, right? Riiiiight.

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NS July 29th, 2008

It’s been uncharacteristically warm in England the last few days. Humidity is creeping up and temperatures are soaring (snicker) into the high 70s and low 80s. Every summer when we finally get some really warm days, I always mock the Brits for moaning about how hottttttttt it is and how stiiiiicky (whinge moan whinge). I roll my eyes and think: they don’t know what hot is, the wimps. They don’t know what it’s like to have to open your car door with the corner of your shirt so your hand is not burned and then duck, lest your face be singed by the oven-like heat. They don’t know what 100% humidity feels like, where sweat drips from even your tear ducts and going outside or anywhere that is not air conditioned between 10am and 6pm is pretty much unthinkable.

But then, inevitably, after a few days, I too begin to feel irritated with being hot and having a permanent film of sweat on my brow, neck and the backs of my knees. I begin to yearn for A/C and lie naked in bed glaring at my little fan as it whirs and churns and tries desperately to keep me cool and grant me sleep. I begin taking cold showers twice a day and nodding my head in agreement when a neighbour or sales clerk comments on the heat. I become British. I told you, resistance is futile.

But then I am reminded that I am perhaps still uniquely un-British when things happen like they did last night. A distant rumble of thunder sounded just before 10pm. I cocked my head and listened in silence for a few minutes. There — another one, this time a bit closer. The wind had picked up and I pressed my face against the now-cooler window and sighed with relief. The rain was coming. Hooray! Then I saw a flash in the sky, and another. Lightning! Oh my lovely, precious lightning, how I love you so. So many of my summer childhood memories have thunderstorms at their root and they never cease to make me nostalgic and full of wonder at Mother Nature’s beauty and power. I began opening all the windows, breathing in that thunderstorm smell. That green, electricity-charged, calm-before-the-storm, fresh-as-air-dried-linen, a hard-rain’s-a’-gonna-fall smell.

I ran upstairs and grabbed TNH off the computer and insisted he come outside with me. He laughed and said “My country girl loves her storms.” I am and I do and I gladly acknowledge that. I ran down the stairs with glee. We poured ourselves an iced coffee and turned off all the lights and then sat at the table on the patio outside, open-mouthed faces turned to the sky as we exclaimed at each bolt of light that ripped through the sky and smiled at each rumble. I closed my eyes and let the cool-warm wind caress my bare arms, face and feet. When the first drops came, quite light and gentle, I stayed rooted to the spot. TNH moved indoors but I stayed where I was, grinning like a fool, letting the drops fall on my skin. I only moved in when I began to get really wet and even then, I wanted to stay.

I went to bed with a head full of nostalgia and a bucketful of sweat. Home in my heart and reality in my pores.

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NS July 26th, 2008

Watching my husband and daughter roll around in the garden together on a beautiful summer morning, covering each other with finger paints then chasing one another around until they collapse on the grass in fits of giggles.

These are the best bits of parenthood.

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NS July 24th, 2008

Today, I achieved something I never thought possible — I passed my UK driving test! To my American readers this may not seem like such a big deal, but here in Britain only 43% of people pass on their first try. Granted, I am not a teenager and I have driven before in the US but I hadn’t been behind the wheel in nearly four years and was very nervous about learning to drive on the other side of the road, the other side of the car and navigate those funny things called roundabouts. Turns out none of those things are all that difficult to master. In fact, I now think that roundabouts are genius. No needless waiting at red lights for ages and the endless amusement at shouting “Look kids, Big Ben!” as you go round in circles looking for your exit — what’s not to love?

Today, I am that little bit closer to total assimilation into British culture. Resistance is futile, apparently. I still refuse to eat the evil brown sauces though. Maybe in another five years…

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NS July 22nd, 2008

I saw this meme at ZoesMom and just had to participate because it looks like fun and it’s easy. I’m so busy right now that easy is definitely a bonus!

The rules are simple: one word answers to 40 questions.

Where is your cell phone? Bookshelf

Your significant other? Tall

Your hair? Oily

Your mother? Creative

Your father? Warm

Your favorite time of day? Dusk

Your dream last night? Strange

Your favourite drink? Soda

Your dream goal? Success

The room you’re in? Square

Your ex? Simple

Your fear? Heights

Where do you want to be in six years? Happy

What are you not? Dull

Your favourite meal? Steak

One of your wish list items? Camera

The last thing you did? Eat

Where you grew up? Sticks

What are you wearing? Pajamas

Your TV is? Dirty

Your pets? Loved

Your computer? Needed

Your life? Happening

Your mood? Bored

Missing someone? Always

Your car? None

Something you’re not wearing? Socks

Favorite store? Borders

Your summer? British

Your favourite colour? Purple

When is the last time you laughed? Today

When is the last time you cried? Yesterday

Your health? Fine

Your children? Lovely

Your future? Undetermined

Your beliefs? Strong

Young or old? Young

Your image? Opinionated

Your appearance? Average

Would you live your life over again knowing what you know? Probably

I tag Andrea, Lyn and Nicole

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