Love and laundry

NS May 23rd, 2008

Yesterday evening, I went out to the garden to take laundry down off the line before putting TNC to bed. It was 7.30 so the light was beginning to fade ever-so-slightly. As I folded clothes and placed them in the white plastic basket, I watched TNC chase the cat, Lola, round and round, squealing with delight. When Lola wouldn’t come to her, TNC ran inside, grabbed her food bag off the kitchen counter and came back out shaking it, calling “Lola! Food! Treat!” as she has heard us do so often. My heart swelled and a big grin spread across my face as I watched the intense concentration with which she crept towards her beloved pet with a single morsel of cat food in her tiny hand, enticing her to come out of hiding and into her arms. When the cat finally came near, TNC scooped Lola up in her arms, pressed her face into her luxurious black fur and said “My cat. Friend. Pet,” before releasing her lovingly back into the kitchen and shutting the door behind her to keep her inside and safe.

Tears pricked my eyes and I stopped mid-fold, committing that memory to my mind forever, depositing it into the bank of love and joy that she fills daily. I know that one day I too will want to scoop my beloved up and entice her into my arms but she won’t come running as she’ll be far too busy exploring, learning and becoming independent. I won’t be able to keep the kitchen door shut forever but in the meantime I will enjoy every moment that I can capture, no matter how fleeting.

5 Responses to “Love and laundry”

  1. I sometimes say that I can’t wait to die because if it’s true that your whole life flashes before your eyes then I’ll get to relive all those precious moments again.

    I don’t think Mrs Brinkster would appreciate me going parachuting again in an attempt to stimulate a near-death experience tho’……..

  2. Andrea says:

    basically, you’re my favorite. basically.

  3. Lyn says:

    Committing those memories to paper (or blog) is also a good idea because there will be so many moments that will slip away in the hustle and bustle of daily life. And it will be wonderful for TNC to be able to read them when she is older. TNF also.

  4. Courtney says:

    Oh, this brought tears to my eyes! Mostly, it’s those little moments that create a whole entire, lovely life! Beautiful writing.

  5. andrea says:

    this made me well up with tears. i can just hear her little voice calling lola and picture her little hand outstretched in a jesture of friendship and love to her pet. i miss you guys so much already!